For A.I. Fans Only: The San Francisco Treat

Posted January 22nd, 2009 by Lisa
Categories: American Idol

By Cathy Sokolowski
sokocathy(at)gmail.com

Why did A.I. bother to go to San Francisco in the first place? We didn’t see any talent and one co-worker described watching the show “As exciting as watching the Yule Log.” We did see three hopefuls who may have been on our lists of 12 but they each only got 3 seconds of airtime and they went by so fast that we didn’t even catch their names. Meanwhile we watched 20 minutes of Akilah, the girl with the long black and gray dreads, who was neither talented nor humorous and was basically just a waste of time. The person who edited these auditions hopefully, for our sakes, didn’t edit any other segments.

Louisville, KY was a much more talented city. Alexis Grace, the young blonde mom with the powerful voice who sang Aretha Franklin’s Dr. Feelgood, received a vote from a co-worker. Brent Keith Smith, the very American Idol-looking guy who sang Bad Company’s Can’t Get Enough, was liked by couple of family members. The biggest vote-getter of the night was Leneshe Young with most of us picking her. She was the young girl who told her story of living in poverty with her siblings and single mom. You are rooting for her to do well after hearing her story. Did we like her because she could sing or did her tale of woe make us believe she could sing? One co-worker has had enough of the sob stories already.

A family member has had enough of Kara. “I’m sick of her already,” she says. I was very excited about Kara after the first week. I found her to be a lot more articulate and honest than Paula and thought she should replace her. After this week I think I will have to agree with my family member.

What’s your opinion of Kara, San Francisco and Louisville?

Until next time…

One Republic

Posted January 17th, 2009 by Lisa
Categories: Books

By BEN SZMANDA

Know-it-alls love to point out that in fact, no, the US is not a democracy, but a republic. They’re right; annoying, but right. Just as true, and even less recognized, is that the government left us by the authors of the Constitution disappeared long ago. This is mourned in some circles, but I honestly can’t figure out why. Which changes do you oppose? The abolition of slavery? Universal suffrage? The ability to directly elect senators? We canonize the founding fathers, and we do a disservice to our history when we pretend that they left us a perfect document. Seen in one way, the history of this country has been a constant fight to make our republic more democratic. But this perspective is too rosy. For one thing, those democratic advancements have been countered very effectively by reactionaries, and left us with a form of government that is less democratic, and certainly less republican too. So what do we call this type of government now? It’s an uncomfortable question, because it requires acknowledging that some of what we believe about ourselves is just plain false. Sheldon Wolin thinks he has the answer, and he makes his argument in his book Democracy Inc: Managed Democracy, and the Specter of Inverted Totalitarianism.

Obviously, calling American an “inverted totalitarian” society is deliberately provocative. And Wolin slaps at least a chapter’s worth of disclaimers on the name. The US is certainly not Nazi Germany or Stalinist Russia. He points out a lot of ways in which they are obviously different, as if that was necessary. But Weldon says there is a disturbing level of control over our lives, and that our society, atomized and thoroughly penetrated by corporate influence, is not only alarmingly distant from political power, but losing more and more our sense of individuality and our sense of community. It’s a self-perpetuating system, and not static one either: Wolin argues that things are getting much worse.

Wolin makes a strong case for the problem. And I certainly agree with his prescription (increased participation on the local level) but the diagnosis seems a little superfluous. After reading the book, I’m not entirely clear on what he means by “Inverted Totalitarianism” or why it would be different from the less provocative — and more obvious — title Managed Democracy. Wolin makes an excellent case for this one, describing the formation of the modern form of the two major parties, the co-option of both by business interests, the shaping of debate through a handful of large media outlets — all of which contribute to a disenfranchised populace. He also avoids the trap most liberals fall into: Thinking the trouble started over the past 8 (long) years. Instead, Wolin takes a wide view, tracing the history of elitist politics from Alexander Hamilton and James Madison to the modern disciples of Leo Straus and Samuel Huntington, which makes for an interesting read. I’m not sure I could say I learned much from Democracy Inc., but I’d never argue against a well written populist manifesto. We could always use a few more.

For A.I. Fans Only: Auditions Begin

Posted January 15th, 2009 by Lisa
Categories: Television, American Idol

By Cathy Sokolowski
Sokocathy(at)gmail.com

I was very surprised to see that the format hasn’t changed from previous years. I heard all kinds of rumors about not seeing the antics of the non-singers any more. Well, they were all there. We loved the very hyper Aundre a.k.a Xray and wondered if Elijah Scarlett might have the deepest voice in all of America.

Our favorites from Phoenix, Arizona were: Emily Hughes, the pink-haired singer in an all girl band. J.B. Ahfua, the guy whose Dad and brothers were waiting for him outside the audition room. He explained that he was auditioning for the “chance to change the lives of my struggling family.” Arianna Afsar got a couple of votes for favorite from co-workers. She was the 16 year old who performs for seniors in nursing homes. A family member picked Deanna Brown as one of her favorites. She was the blonde who sang “Dock of the Bay” and came alone to the auditions. Two co-workers liked Michael Carver, the construction worker with the young family. One family member liked Alex Wagner Trugman but, she admits, more for his sense of humor than his singing. He was the kid who practiced singing, then got sick, in his closet. Randy compared Alex to Joe Cocker. Simon then made a comment comparing Alex to a Cocker Spaniel to which Alex replied that “It would have been a good joke if it made sense.”

My favorites of the night were Scott McIntyer, the “almost” blind pianist who entered college at 14 and graduated at 19. He sang Billy Joel’s, “And So It Goes.” I felt like he was singing from his heart and I was very impressed. One co-worker agreed with me. My other favorite was Stevie Wright. She was the long brown haired 16 year old who was named after Stevie Nicks. Simon thought that she needed to toughen up a bit if she wanted to be successful in the music business. A co-worker remembered that Simon told her “You need to sharpen your teeth.” I wasn’t the only one who picked her as one of the best of the night. She was actually picked by everyone I talked to. I’ll be really surprised if she doesn’t make it to the finals.

What can I say about bikini girl? I did think the exchange between her and Kara was entertaining but have nothing else to say about her but I heard that a couple of male viewers had some comments. A co-worker told me that her husband commented that “she didn’t have anything to show off” and a family member said her husband wondered why bikini girl felt like she needed to audition in a bikini when “she had a really good voice.”

Kansas City was the location of Wednesday night’s auditions. Co-workers were talking about the “very cute” (as she was described by a 15 year old nephew) Chelsea. “Simon was really mean when he told her that she sounded like a cat being thrown off the Empire State Building.” The cheerleaders for Andrew Lang were liked by a couple of co-workers. We were amazed at the talent of the girl who did the split at the end of the cheer.

Talented hopefuls we think could make it to the finals were: Casey Carlson who sang ‘A Thousand Miles.” One reader thought she was a “cute girl in a really cute dress.” Others who got one vote for the night were Matt “the welder” Bradsky. He was the bald, heavyset dad with the beard and mustache. Anoop Desai whose voice did not fit his looks and Asa Barnes, the 28 year old dad who was a band director.

A couple of my choices of the night were Michael Castro and Jessica Page Furney. Michael is the brother of Jason Castro of Season 7. One family member agrees with me when we wonder if we like Castro for his singing or because we were huge fans of Jason. Another family member chose Jessica and with her we wondered if we liked her singing or her cute 93 year old grandma. I think that both Michael and Jessica have talent and I will most likely be putting them on my list of Top 12. The top vote-getter for Kansas City week, who was also on my list, was Daniel J. Gokey. He was the guy whose wife died 4 weeks before his audition.

Finally, no one had any negative comments about the “new girl.” Actually, we think we like Kara so far. Her interactions with Paula sometimes are kind of silly though. I could see Kara replacing Paula one day which wouldn’t be such a bad idea.

I let you know what some of us are thinking. I’d love to hear if you agree or disagree with our picks.

We’re Back

Posted January 12th, 2009 by Lisa
Categories: American Idol

By Cathy Sokolowski

Sokocathy(at)gmail.com

A.I. returns for it’s 8th season tonight.  We’re back at the Cactus for our 3rd time.

My family and friends will all be watching once again.  We have our usual readers on board also, but we’re hoping that we can get some of our new readers to write in with their comments.  The more the merrier as they say.

I heard that the format is changing and there will be a new judge, Kara DioGuardi, joining Simon, Randy and Paula.  I’d love to hear what you thought of the changes.

I’m excited as usual.  I know you are too!

See you back here on Thursday.

TV Old and New: What Are You Watching?

Posted November 23rd, 2008 by Lisa
Categories: Television

What have you been watching?  I am serious, I want to know.

I was shocked this week when ABC axed three of my favorite shows, Dirty Sexy Money, Eli Stone and Pushing Daisies.  I was high on Eli Stone and I though that that it was so creative and unique, that audiences would follow it, as they did since ABC brought in back for a second season.

The same was for Pushing Daisies, which has been a mainstay on my TV screen since it began.  The quirky nature of that show was, again, stuff that is made for TV land.  However, I don’t know what has happened to people these days.  It seems that we cant get enough of the same stuff, i.e., the procedural dramas that are CSI and Law and Order. 

I love these shows too, don’t get me wrong, but there are other shows out there as well.  Maybe it’s because people are clinging to what they know in these uncertain times, I don’t know.  Whatever the reason, I hate to see when great shows, with quality acting, go bye-bye with out a fair shot at making it.  I believe that Pushing Daisies’ death was truly a by-product of the Writer’s Strike which is still having ramifications on the TV landscape.

This week is Thanksgiving and we have a lot to be thankful for from a TV standpoint.  Not only, untill this week, have the networks been a bit kind with the ax,  but the shows that have been on the air for a while have seemed to find a bit of creative re-direction, I guess you could say.

Longtime favorites like CSI, (all of them), and NCIS seem to be getting better and better this season.  With that being said, it does seem harder and harder for a “young buck” to make inroads against a perrinial powerhouse, but that should not stop them from trying because those shows WERE the “young bucks” of their day.

Sweeps are on-going and after the holiday, we will have a very clear picture of the Winter season.  There are favorites coming back like 24 and Lost, which have already been getting heavy promotions, and there will undoubtedly be some new upstarts that will peak our interest, like the ill-fated Lipstick Jungle, which, too, has fallen to the mighty network ax.

So, I go back to what I asked in the beginning…What are you watching?

And, oh yes, have a great holiday.

The TV Season Has It’s First Sweeps Period

Posted November 9th, 2008 by Lisa
Categories: Television

By DA Southern

It’s November sweeps time. When thinking of that time of year, TV fans know that this also means huge cliffhangers, major twists and a lot of guest stars. A good number of fans don’t like the stress this time of year brings, especially since they know some of their favorite series will go on hiatus for December and the first weeks of January.

To help you prepare for November sweeps 2008, we compiled spoilers for the November episodes of some of the best shows on TV. We give you spoilers for series such as: Bones, Brothers & Sisters, Criminal Minds, CSI, Desperate Housewives, Fringe. Ghost Whisperer, Gossip Girl, Grey’s Anatomy, Heroes, House, How I Met Your Mother, NCIS, Prison Break, Smallville, The Simpsons, The Unit, Without a Trace and Ugly Betty.

SPOILERS FOLLOW!

The following spoilers are from sources such as Kristin from E!, Ausiello from Entertainment Weekly, SpoilerFix.com, SpoilerTV, the networks’ sweeps press releases and my own snooping around.

Bones: Angela’s ex-girlfriend Roxie is a suspect in a murder investigation. Booth’s brother Jared flirts with Brenna. Max finds a job as a teacher. Booth and Brennan must solve a case while in the air on a plane bound to China.

Brothers & Sisters: Sarah launches a new business. Saul starts dating.

Criminal Minds: Secrets from Dr. Reid’s childhood will be revealed. A serial killer turns himself in.

CSI:
Grissom turns to Lady Heather for help and comfort. In another episode, Grisson must testify at the competency hearing of the miniature killer.

CSI: New York:
It’s Mac Taylor mania in the series’ 100th episode when two victims, both named Mac Taylor, are killed. All other Mac Taylors must find the killer before one of them bites the dust.

Desperate Housewives:
McCluskey enlists her sister’s help to find dirt on Dave. Julie visits Wisteria Lane with a 40-year-old boyfriend in tow. While the “desperate househusbands band” performs at a club, a fire erupts. At least one character is said to not make it out alive.

Fringe:
Walter must go back to the mental institution to help solve a case. Olivia demands to go back in the tank to stop Agent Scott from appearing to her.

Ghost Whisperer: Melinda must deal with dramatic personal changes when someone close to her dies.

Gossip Girl: Serena and Aaron continue to bond. Jenny still hands out with Agnes. Eleanor gets a boyfriend.

Grey’s Anatomy: One of Meredith’s oldest friends Sadie, whom she may have kissed once or twice, becomes an intern.

Heroes: Hiro goes back in time to learn more about Arthur and Angela Petrelli.

House:
The team must make a housecall when a patient refuses to leave his home. A patient takes the doctors and several patients hostage. At least one person will get shot during the episode while one of the doctors will serve as guinea pig. Foreman

How I Met Your Mother: Ted runs into Stella after she left him at the altar.

NCIS: Agent Lee returns.

Prison Break: Someone makes the ultimate sacrifice. Sarah takes Michael to the hospital.

Smallville:
Kara and Lana return. Lois temporarily gets powers. Chloe suffers from dementia. Jimmy and Chloe’s big day goes awfully wrong.

The Simpsons:
An episode will tell, via flashbacks, how Marge and Homer first met Maude and Ned Flanders and how people of the opposite sex nearly broke Homer and Marge up. Lisa will enter a citywide crossword puzzle tournament.

The Unit:
Jonas’ daughter is kidnapped. The team must travel to Iraq to save her. Ryan suffers the consequences from his affair with Tiffy.

Ugly Betty: Betty and Amanda become roommates.

Without a Trace: Jack is reinstated as head of the department.

A Promise of Hope and New Beginnings

Posted November 5th, 2008 by Lisa
Categories: Politics/Current events

Jim Montana 

November 4, 2008 will go down as the day that the Civil Rights movement came full circle. For those who may have been living under a rock for the past twenty-four hours Barack Obama is going to be our 44th President. Many in my life have said that I am void of emotion however watching America celebrate like their team had just won the Super Bowl or the World Series was a sight that I admit brought me to tears. This was as much of a historic election as the hype had made it out to be, But the election of Obama will hopefully bring the two things that Americans need the most hope and change. It will be intresting to see if Obam lives up to the title of saint that the media has seemed to bestow upon him, however if not we as a country need to remember that it took eight years to reach this point it will take sometime to start making headway towards a solution.

this brings me to my next point and that is after an exhausting election the end has finally arrived, and with the end of one election brings the breeze of a new election coming in four years. I have enjoyed covering this election from the start to the inspiring end but i am afraid that it is time for me to step aside, Lisa gave a writer who had a voice but no audience an oppertunity to be heard. Out there is another Jim Montana who has as strong a passion for politics as I do and wants to be heard but cannot get his or her voice out there. I have been afforded oppertunities that will take the time i would normally devote to the Cactus away and I feel that the best answer is to pass the tourch on to another writer.The memories I have of writing for Cactus I will cherish for years to come, and who knows I may still pop in from time to time and offer my opinion on the world of Washington, Until we meet again. 

The New TV Programs Deserve Your Vote This Week.

Posted November 2nd, 2008 by Lisa
Categories: Television

By DA Southern

I was under the impression that the TV bosses were being kind this year; that series had a better chance since the networks were not so keen in developing new series every other week.  You know, strike residual, tough economic times, blah, blah, blah.

As soon as I say that, the poor Ex-List on CBS Friday night goes off to the dead zone as it gets canceled after 4 episodes.  Boy, that must be a tough spot as last years, Moonlight, bit the dust as well in the same time period.  I don’t know what it is about that time period, but shows have a tough time of it.

OK, let’s be honest.  While I love Elizabeth Reaser, as she is definitely a Hottie, and a great actress as she proved in her stint on Grey’s Anatomy last year, this was not the vehicle for her.  She deserves so much better and their is no doubt she will be given a chance down the road.

Come on, though.  The premise of the show left way too many open holes to be filled.  A girl having to re-examine her past flames to find out which one was her soul mate.  Oh brother! If some girl who used me and then threw me off came up and said that she was supposed to be with me because a psychic told her she had to be or be alone, well, I’d probably say, “Too bad, sweetie” no matter how much I cared for her.  Who is too say that she would not do it again?  I don’t know, just too much water under the bridge.  Evidently America said the same thing.

Another shocker to me is my beloved “Pushing Daisies.”  It is even rumored to be in trouble.  The only thing I can imagine is that ABC should have not pulled it off the air during the strike, but let it repeat so the peeps could really get it in their blood and not want to miss it when it came back on in the fall.  It is like everyone had to become reacquainted with the show.  It really is too bad because it is a great show and deserves to be watched.

Another show struggling now is “My Own Worse Enemy,” the Christian Slater show that, I must admit, is confusing.  The show is about a guy who is a ruthless agent that is “Switched” to be a loving family guy by a microchip in his head.  The chip malfunctions and we don’t know half the time if he is the loving guy or the ruthless agent.   Not so much Slater’s fault but more the fault of the commercials that break up the action.  It doesn’t help that it up against the favorite, CSI: Miami, either.  If the folks don’t get it, they know they can always go back to the CSI gang for comfort.

Still, there are a lot of questions about the season and this week we have that pesky little thing called our National Elections that will take front and center for a good part of the week.

As I said before, things will begin to become much more clear in the next week or so as the networks start to jockey for position for the winter season that will begin in January.  Not that far off and the November sweeps will give us a very clear picture of what the landscape should look like.

So, vote this week for the folks you want to represent you and then use the remote to make sure your favs stay on the air afterwords.

Next week, we will have a new President and no matter who you vote for, you have got to admire our system of how we change directions in this country.  No matter what others say or how contentious it may get, our country has one of the most incredible transfers of power on the globe.

Enjoy the process and remember that no matter who is in the White House, no one can tell you what you can or can not watch on TV…at least for the moment!

The 2008 Fall Premier Season Is Now Complete

Posted October 26th, 2008 by Lisa
Categories: Television

BY DA Southern
I don’t know about you, but I have settled into a fairly predictable routine for my TV viewing and it is making me wonder about the state of TV, in general.  We all seem to get so comfy in our viewing patterns that it amazes me that any new show can actually succeed.

With that being said, I love the new season, I really do, and, believe it or not, I think the TV powers-that-be have been pretty gracious with the anti-cancellations so far.  Outside of the few that I previously noted, their does not seem to be any trouble spots that executives are fretting over just yet.

True, we are in an election season and there has been heightened anticipation over what will happen on November 4th.  After the aftermath, we will enter November sweeps and that is where we will begin to see the true indication of where we are as far as the weaker of the new crop.

I can tell you that the NBC Wednesday show, Knight Rider, has gotten a full season pick-up as has The Mentalist over at CBS on Tuesdays.  Good news because I have enjoyed both programs and feel they be given a chance to develop fully.

I also have found it rather nice that the networks have taken a cue from cable and repeated some of their shows on both cable networks such as USA Network and have used Saturday nights as a “Repeat” night as I have seen Knight Rider and NCIS, just to name a couple, to repeat.  Great Idea because not everybody has a DVR and there are those who actually stay home on Saturday evenings and “Catch-Up” with movies, TV and the like.  Yes, I know it is hard to believe that not everybody parties every weekend.

So, what is new this week?  Well the last of the premiers are scheduled.

Wednesday has a Tyra Banks produced show called Stylist on the CW network at 9:00 PM EST.  If you are unfamiliar with the premise, Stylist has been called a show “Brimming with The Devil Wears Prada-appeal.”  That was a movie, if you missed it, about the fashion world with a mean lady in charge of a popular…Hey, when did Tyra Banks decide to copy Ugly Betty?  Anyway, I am a sucker for most any reality show so I will check it out for you.

Thursday has the final “New” show, although it is an old show by now, 30 Rock.  It is about time, too.  I remember when this show first came on.  There was another show similar to it and poor 30 Rock was not given much of a chance.  Even in the way it advertised itself, it never took itself too seriously.  Well, three seasons later and countless Emmys for Tina Fey, et al, the show is a solid hit that gets buffo ratings and dynamic replay on the web.  What more could a show ask for?  30 Rock will fill the 9:30 time period, I guess ending the SNL “Elect Barak Obama” political show…I mean, the sketch comedy show.

So there you have it.  The fall TV season is officially in the record books and many of the shows will have a big sweeps period in November and then go dormant through the Christmas season as the networks trot out their Christmas specials.  There will be some cool extra features coming up such as the “24″ movie that will set up the next “Day” that we haven’t seen for over a year.  Additionally, we will begin to see some predictable fallout of the new shows and of some of the older ones such as Boston Legal that wraps up by years end.

I’ve got you covered with all of the TV news you need to know so you don’t really have to go anywhere else, do you now.  Until then, stay close to the TV because I wouldn’t want it any other way.

The Return Of Jim Montana

Posted October 19th, 2008 by Lisa
Categories: Politics/Current events

Jim Montana                                                                                                                                                                              As some of you may or may not have noticed there seems to have been a severe lack of Jim Montana over the past several weeks, this is due to the fact that like the commercial says “life comes at you fast” and i got caught up in the whirlwind. That being said i realize that i have missed the heart of the election year, believe me when i say i have not missed anything I have been there for every palinful moment of the McCain campaign. After watching the campaign progress over the past several weeks one has to wonder does McCain want to lose this election. Sarah Palin in has done to the election what Pauly Shore did to movies in the 1990’s, I will never forgive him for Son-In-Law. Even as our economic system melts down around us Gov. Palin seems more interested in playing pin the William Ayers tail on the donkey then trying to fix our broken economy. I condemn what William Ayers did way back when, however that does not make everyone that has crossed his path over the last several years a terrorist. Sen McCain needs to watch himself because at the rate she is going John McCain might be fired from the McCain-Palin campaign for not attacking Sen Obama and his connection to William Ayers. Now comes the interesting part of the column, at several campaign rallies for Sen. McCain there has been instances of supporters of McCain shouting “kill him” when Sen. Obama’s name is mentioned, and nothing has been said about this except when the dynamic duo is asked about it. At the beginning of this slugfest last year I stated that this country is not ready for an African-American president, and while that theory has proven to be wrong there are still nut-jobs out there who do not need a reason to go Lee Harvey Oswald on Sen. Obama Gov. Palin and Sen McCain need to realize that you can not let supporters at your rallies shout out anything they want and not address those comments immediately. As stated earlier Sen. McCain must have a death wish for his campaign, when he was sitting down with his list of potential running mates did he pick the only one who has no foreign relations experience, for goodness sakes if he put that little of thought into the decision I should have thrown my name into the ring for consideration. Sarah Palin might be a good candidate for president but not now, If John McCain was to get lucky and win this election and something was to happen to him we would be stuck with a gun toting hockey mom to lead this country and may god have mercy on us.

The TV Vortex Is Spinning…Are You Caught In The Vortex?

Posted October 19th, 2008 by Lisa
Categories: Television

The vortex of TV land is slowly sucking us in and we are all guilty of not grabbing hold and trying to stop it.  What do I mean?  First we have to ask what exactly is a Vortex?

Ahhh…The Trusty Wikipedia

Well, for that we will go to our trusty Wikipedia which says that a vortex is “a spinning, often turbulent, flow of fluid. Any spiral motion with closed streamlines is vortex flow. The motion of the fluid swirling rapidly around a center is called a vortex. The speed and rate of rotation of the fluid are greatest at the center, and decrease progressively with distance from the center.”

Well, that sums it up, doesn’t it?  You are still shaking your head, aren’t you?  OK, here goes.  The vortex is, of course, the TV.  The streamlines are the attention that we give the vortex.  This may seem weird coming from me, your trusty TV guru, but, trust me, it is not a bad thing at all.  It is really OK to be caught in the vortex from time to time, because at the center of the vortex, it is actually very calm.  What I am saying is that TV can give us a bit of calmness and serenity and in turbulent times such as these.  Sometimes just a quiet night in front of the set is OK.

For A Wasteland, There Certainly are a Lot of People Who Want Us to Watch

Why do I bring it up?  Well, it seems that TV is trashed so often by those who say that we spend to much time in front of it, but yet, those same powers-that-be are just as quick to use it to communicate with us.  Don’t ever feel bad about the time you spend relaxing in front of the TV and with all of the choices we have these days, the TV turns out to be a fairly inexpensive way to spend our money.

Like everything, you can go overboard, I guess and become like a zombie, but in the long run, I believe most are pretty consistent in their viewing habits.  If you are like me, a lot of the time it is just on for some noise.

How is it Looking so Far?

The current TV season is still in its infancy and, believe it or not, after 3 weeks of the 2008-2009 season through October 12, 2008, CBS has the largest season to date audience with 11.11 million viewers (followed by ABC with 10.35 million) and the most adults 25-54 with 5.04 million (again followed by ABC with 4.71 million).

CBS has the highest average for adults 18-49 with 4.19 million (followed closely by ABC with 4.15 million). In a close race, NBC has the highest average (1.79 million) for adults 18-34 followed closely by Fox with 1.73 million and ABC with 1.71 million.

Top Ten Shows So far

The Top 10 shows are CSI, Dancing With The Stars, Criminal Minds,(somewhat of a surprise, but the show has gotten better since Mandy left…Sorry Mandy!)CSI: New York, NCIS, Dancing With The Stars Results Show, Desperate Housewifes, Greys Anatomy, CSI:Miami and The OT.

We really haven’t got enough raw data on a lot of the other shows since it is a political season and we have had some scheduling stuff going on.  It should settle down until Election Day and then we will ave a bit of a November-Sweeps stretch.

There are no premiers this week, but next week the gazillion emmy winner, Tina Fey, comes back from playing Sarah Palin every week on SNL and gets back to Work on 30 Rock.  Should be fun.  Everybody loves a winner!

Until next week, my fellow vortexers…is that even a word?

Is It Me Or Does There Seem To Be Some Decent Shows On This Season

Posted October 11th, 2008 by Lisa
Categories: Television

By DA Southern

There are some nights that have me at a loss of words when it comes to watching this season.  It could be for a multitude of reasons.  I believe that there is some great programming this season and it is sad that we have some competing nights, ie, it seems as if some nights are heavier than others in their programming.

I must say that this season there is not really a night that is weak Sunday through Thursday, with Friday pretty much a solid CBS night with Ghost Whisperer, The Ex-List and Numbers.  NBC is actually starting to compete with the new series, Crusoe, (more about that later) at 8:00 PM, Deal Or No Deal at 9:00 PM, which is pretty innocuous entertainment and Life at 10:00 pm, a decent show in its sophomore season.

With that being said, we seem to ave a pretty full season to date, with no real shows riding the danger zones yet because of the fairly robust ratings across the spectrum.  Maybe it was the drought that the strike took on everybody last season; maybe the writing is actually pretty good and maybe, just maybe, the shows are pretty strong over all this season.

The season is still young and a lot has to shake out, but, overall, this is shaping up to be one of the better seasons-to-date.  So, on with what is new to us this week.  We don’t have too much left to premier and for the life of me I can’t figure out why we waited so long for our these premiers this week.

Monday:

The popular Samantha Who is back on the ABC network at 9:30 PM and as popular as this show was, I can’t believe we waited so long to see the sweet Christina Applegate so late in the season.  I guess it is Dancing With the Stars fault.  I mean after that master of dance, Kim Kardashian, got kicked off the show, does anyone really care anymore?

My Own Worst Enemy, the Christian Slater drama is premiering at 10:00 PM.  For those not sure what it is about at this point, although I don’t know where you may have been as there have been countless promos for it.  The story is about the division between a suburban father and his superspy alter ego that breaks down after an implant in his brain begins to malfunction, leaving his two identities fighting for dominance.

Tuesday:

Eli Stone, the quirky legal-beagle drama is back on ABC at 10:00 PM

Friday:

Crusoe premiers at 8:00 PM on NBC.  It is the story of a castaway and his native friend who endure the perils of living on a deserted island in this adaptation of Daniel Defoe’s classic novel.

Next week, we will have no premiers, which should give you a chance to have a pretty solid TV viewing pattern set.  By then, we will have some beginning numbers as well, as it pertains to the season and the leaders should be fairly evident and I’ll give you some indication as to shows that, if you have missed for one reason or another, you should either forget or start to catch up on…or not.

Who Are You Voting For?

Posted October 11th, 2008 by Lisa
Categories: Books

By BEN SZMANDA

With an election coming up, and the world’s economic system going through a total meltdown, it may be a good time to take a peek at John R MacArthur’s new book You Cant Be President: The Outrageous Barriers to Democracy in America. MacArthur argues that the American public is dangerously removed from the political process. His approach is scattershot, targeting a different problem in each chapter, and letting the reader piece the whole mess together for themselves. Mess is the right word.

There are a number of culprits, and MacArthur devotes a chapter to each of the major offenders. Particularly good is his discussion of the way the two major political parties work, often times together, to maintain the power of their leaders. (MacArthur’s description of the Clinton political machine’s maneuvers in the 2004 primary was amazing.) The result of this is to drastically limit the diversity of political opinion, and drive the leaders of each party further into the hands of their donors.

Of course, this narrowing of our national political discussion is aided and abetted by the major news outlets. Our national press corps is homogenized and pathetically servile to power, and in the times when we need them most—say, in the run up to the Iraq war, or when something like NAFTA is being “debated”— do nothing but serve as propaganda organs for those in charge. The upshot of this is that a lot of the things MacArthur describes in this book escape notice.

Taken as a whole, MacArthur paints a grim picture of the state of politics in our country. It is pretty clear, though, that he is doing his best to avoid inspiring despair in the reader. He tries to take a populist approach, and makes the effort to bring in some local heroes who have managed to fight the system. The message seems to be that yes, a small group of elites control the political process, but grassroots action is more than capable of asserting itself, even at this late date.

Here’s something that people seem to miss: Democratic participation requires more than voting. It requires actively seeking out information. It requires showing up to boring city council meetings. Most importantly, it seems to me, it requires eschewing partisanship. I don’t mean that in the way our political leaders do when they blabber about “reaching across the aisle”—I mean that we need to stop defending the indefensible in our politicians just because they happen to have a “D” or a “R” in front of their names. Probably the best aspect of MacArthur’s book is his refusal to play this game; he has this crazy notion that politicians should be held responsible for their actions after they are elected. It could be that, with the economy and the world in the state it is in, he is about to get his wish. Shame that it took this much.

Fall TV Season Premiers Start To Thin Out But The Season Is Just Heating Up

Posted October 5th, 2008 by Lisa
Categories: Television

<meta content="OpenOffice.org 3.0 (Win32)" name="GENERATOR" /><style type="text/css"> <!-- @page { margin: 0.79in } P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } A:link { so-language: zxx } --></style></p> <p>BY DA Southern</p> <p><meta content="text/html; charset=utf-8" http-equiv="CONTENT-TYPE" /><title /><meta content="OpenOffice.org 3.0 (Win32)" name="GENERATOR" /><style type="text/css"> <!-- @page { margin: 0.79in } P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } A:link { so-language: zxx } --> </style></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">The Fall TV Season is already proving to be interesting in a myriad of ways and it seems that we have a full-fledged hit on our hands with the hit series from JJ Abrams, <em><strong>Fringe</strong>, </em>on FOX on Tuesdays.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">FOX has given the series the sign of approval of a full season pick-up and now the dredging will begin in earnest as others will start to get their votes of confidence, or disapproval, with either a pick-up or a pink slip. In the cancellation bracket, <font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: normal"><em><strong>Do Not Disturb</strong></em>, the stinker from FOX, was the first of the Fall Season to go.</span></font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: normal">So with that bit of cheery good and bad news, well, actually it is all good news. As much as I like Jerry O’Donnell, he deserves much better than that one. This week only has one night of premiers, and it is Thursdays, of all nights. Isn’t there enough to look at on Thursdays already? </span></font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: normal">Thursday</span></font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: normal">The cherry spot of 8:30 PM on NBC, </span></font></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><em><strong>Kath and Kim</strong></em></font></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: normal">, looks like a solid comedy that should play in the whole Thursday night comedy block nicely.</span></font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: normal">9:00 CBS brings back the powerhouse, </span></font></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><em><strong>CSI</strong></em></font></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: normal">, with the conclusion of the Ward shooting that was last season’s cliffhanger.</span></font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: normal">OK, this one I don’t understand at all, especially with YouTube and Hulu as well as NBC, itself, playing the SNL good skits anytime we want to see them, but it’s their time slot. So, at 9:30 PM, </span></font></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><em><strong>SNL on Saturday Night </strong></em></font></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: normal">premiers.</span></font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: normal">10:00 PM has 2 new premiers that should round out the Thursday night viewing and keep ypu on the couch all night long. ABC has the very interesting looking, </span></font></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><em><strong>Life On Mars</strong></em></font></font><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: normal">, which is a remake of the very popular show of the same name from the UK.</span></font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><img width="220" height="150" border="0" alt="LIFE ON MARS " name="graphics1" src="http://www.tvguide.com/images/pgimg/lifeonmars-new1.jpg" /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">A New York City detective is hit by a car in 2008 and wakes up in 1973. There he must adjust to his new life and work for a politically incorrect boss, all the while trying to figure out how to get home to 2008.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Finally, Thursday night has it’s own version of Fringe with, <em><strong>The Eleventh Hour</strong></em>,</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><img width="220" height="150" border="0" align="bottom" alt="ELEVENTH HOUR " name="graphics4" src="http://www.tvguide.com/images/pgimg/eleventhhour-new1.jpg" /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">A top biophysicist is called in by the government to investigate unusual scientific happenings at the 11th hour.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: normal">The rest of the month only has 6 more premiers and by then we will know what shows are destined to be supplanted by the mid-season replacements that are always waiting in the wings. </span></font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><font face="Arial, sans-serif"><font size="3"><span style="font-weight: normal">Until then, we will be waiting and watching. </span></font></font></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/10/05/fall-tv-season-premiers-start-to-thin-out-but-the-season-is-just-heating-up/#comments" title="Comment on Fall TV Season Premiers Start To Thin Out But The Season Is Just Heating Up">1 Comment</a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/10/05/fall-tv-season-premiers-start-to-thin-out-but-the-season-is-just-heating-up/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/10/05/fall-tv-season-premiers-start-to-thin-out-but-the-season-is-just-heating-up/" dc:title="Fall TV Season Premiers Start To Thin Out But The Season Is Just Heating Up" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/10/05/fall-tv-season-premiers-start-to-thin-out-but-the-season-is-just-heating-up/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1223"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/28/fall-premiere-season-good-news-you-may-only-have-to-miss-a-couple-of-work-days-this-week/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Fall Premiere Season; Good News, You May Only Have To Miss A Couple Of Work Days This Week">Fall Premiere Season; Good News, You May Only Have To Miss A Couple Of Work Days This Week</a></h2> <small>Posted September 28th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/television/" title="View all posts in Television" rel="category tag">Television</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p><meta content="text/html; charset=utf-8" http-equiv="CONTENT-TYPE" /><title /><meta content="OpenOffice.org 3.0 (Win32)" name="GENERATOR" /><style type="text/css"> <!-- @page { margin: 0.79in } P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } --> </style></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">By DA Southern</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">The Fall Season really got into gear this past week and if you are like me, you had the ‘ole DVR twirling…I know, it is all digital, but us writers find nothing attractive about saying the DVR silently recorded on a digital drive, OK? It really is not sexy.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">So, as I was saying before I was so rudely interrupted…the DVR’s were whizzing and cranking as we tried to get all of our favorites watched. (I am still catching up) The season is well under way and ABC even copied my idea about calling in sick to work by declaring it “National Stay At Home Week.” I think they owe me some type of residuals or something.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">As we enter the first week of October, we will see many of the old favorites come back, you know those shows that are fairly confident in their audience to wait until later in the schedule to start. With that being said let’s dive into this week’s new shows and returning favorites and by far, Sunday is the busiest day this week with 12 big premieres</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><strong>Sunday</strong></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">7:00 PM<em /></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Extreme Makeover: Home Edition (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">8:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>The Amazing Race 13 (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>The Simpsons (FOX)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">8:30 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>King of the Hill (FOX)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">9:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Desperate Housewifes (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Cold Case (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Family Guy (FOX)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Dexter (Showtime)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">9:30 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>American Dad (FOX)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">10:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Brothers and Sisters (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>The Unit (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Californication (Showtime)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><strong>Monday</strong></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">8:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Chuck (NBC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">10:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Life (NBC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">No New Shows on Tuesday</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><strong>Wednesday</strong></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">8:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Pushing Daisies (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Friday Night Lights (DirecTV Channel 101)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">9:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Private Practice (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">10:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Dirty Sexy Money (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">No New Shows on Thursday</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><strong>Friday</strong></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">8:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Ghost Whisperer (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Wife Swap (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Everybody Hates Chris (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">8:30 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>The Game (CW)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">9:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Super Nanny (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>The Ex-List (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in; font-style: normal"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in; font-style: normal">10:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Numbers (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Of the shows above, only two are never-been-seen shows as we are seeing The Game, which the CW graciously has this as a description; “A pro football player’s girlfriend adjusts to life in the NFL, which is sometimes glamorous but often stressful.” Nice…I guess if you don’t watch it the first time you may not see it again.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">The other new show is “The Ex-List”, which has had some decent buzz about it and a nice time spot between The Ghost Whisperer and Numbers, although that spot didn’t save Moonlight last year. The Ex List is about a thirty-something woman who must revisit her past relationships to find her soul mate after a psychic informs herthat one of them is her future husband, but if she doesn’t locate him within a year she is destined to remain single for the rest of her life. Uh-oh…how are they going to get out of the “Year” thing next season? I guess if it is a hit, they will write something creative.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">We start to get everything set in the way of a viewing pattern in the next couple of weeks which will allow me the chance to expound on the season as it progresses.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Until then, enjoy the TV week.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/28/fall-premiere-season-good-news-you-may-only-have-to-miss-a-couple-of-work-days-this-week/#respond" title="Comment on Fall Premiere Season; Good News, You May Only Have To Miss A Couple Of Work Days This Week">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/28/fall-premiere-season-good-news-you-may-only-have-to-miss-a-couple-of-work-days-this-week/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/28/fall-premiere-season-good-news-you-may-only-have-to-miss-a-couple-of-work-days-this-week/" dc:title="Fall Premiere Season; Good News, You May Only Have To Miss A Couple Of Work Days This Week" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/28/fall-premiere-season-good-news-you-may-only-have-to-miss-a-couple-of-work-days-this-week/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1219"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/22/teenage-wasteland/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Teenage Wasteland">Teenage Wasteland</a></h2> <small>Posted September 22nd, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/editors-corner/" title="View all posts in Editor's Corner" rel="category tag">Editor's Corner</a></small> <div class="entry"> <div style="float: left"><img height="200" width="200" src="http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/45002000/jpg/_45002005_3c8a5e24-8fb2-41b6-ba60-8e02e87373f7.jpg" /></div> <p>So, truth be told, the cactus has been a little slim around these parts.</p> <p>That’s not intentional, but life sometimes gets in the way.</p> <p>DA Southern is back, posting his awesome television columns, and Ben and James are awesome cornerstones, but the rest of the staff has been given a little vaca by yours truly.</p> <p>The cactus will be back in full swing very very soon.</p> <p>Love and cacti,<br /> LISA SOKOLOWSKI<br /> Editor-in-Chief<br /> cactusiv(at)gmail.com </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/22/teenage-wasteland/#respond" title="Comment on Teenage Wasteland">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/22/teenage-wasteland/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/22/teenage-wasteland/" dc:title="Teenage Wasteland" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/22/teenage-wasteland/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1222"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/21/fall-tv-season-week-4get-the-dvr-fired-up-youll-need-it/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to FALL TV Season: Week 4…Get The DVR Fired Up; You’ll Need It">FALL TV Season: Week 4…Get The DVR Fired Up; You’ll Need It</a></h2> <small>Posted September 21st, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/television/" title="View all posts in Television" rel="category tag">Television</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p><meta content="text/html; charset=utf-8" http-equiv="CONTENT-TYPE" /><title /><meta content="OpenOffice.org 2.4 (Win32)" name="GENERATOR" /><style type="text/css"> <!-- @page { size: 8.5in 11in; margin: 0.79in } P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } --> </style></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">BY DA Southern</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">The Big Week of the Fall TV Season is here and as I told you before, this is THE week that things start to kick into high gear. With that begin said, I will not take a lot of time expounding on the virtues of various TV shows as there will be plenty of time for that as the season unfolds.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">As this is the week a lot of returning favorites are mixed in with new, I will break each day out by listing the new shows first and then the returning favorites and, as always, I will list the times in EST, so adjust accordingly.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><strong>Sunday:</strong></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">New:</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>7:00 PM: In Harm’ s Way (CW) </em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>8:00 PM: Valentine (CW) </em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>9:00 PM: Easy Money (CW) </em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><strong>Monday</strong></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">New:</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>9:30 PM: Worst Week (CBS) </em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Returning Favorites:</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>8:00 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Dancing With The Stars (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>The Big Bang Theory (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>8:30 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>How I Met Your Mother (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>9:00 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Two and A Half Men (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Heroes (NBC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>10:00 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Boston Legal (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>CSI: Miami (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Californication (Showtime)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><strong>Tuesday</strong></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">New:</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>8:00 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Opportunity Knocks (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>9:00 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>The Mentalist (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Returning Favorites:</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>8:00 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>NCIS (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>10:00 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Without A Trace (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Law & Order: SVU (NBC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><strong>Wednesday</strong></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">New Shows:</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>8:00:</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Knight Rider (NBC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>8:30 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Gary Unmarried (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Returning Favorites:</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>8:00 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>New Adventures of Old Christine (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>9:00 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Criminal Minds (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>10:00 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>CSI: New York (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Lipstick Jungle (NBC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><strong>Thursday</strong></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">No New Shows Premiering</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>8:00 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Ugly Betty (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Survivor: Gabon (CBS)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>My Name Is Earl (NBC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>9:00 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>Grey’s Anatomy (ABC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>The Office (NBC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>10:00 PM</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em>ER (NBC)</em></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">OK, so there you have it. I know it is a lot to take in and undoubtedly, if you are like me, the DVR will be whizzing and smoking trying to make sure that all is covered, right? But do not worry, I will make sure you are up to speed as the season starts to unleash all of its fury.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">I will have commentary and what is Hot and what is Not as the weeks roll by and it should be a fun ride, so be sure and let me know your thoughts along the way.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">One word of warning that I will tell you now…You will not be able to rest after this full week as next Sunday alone has 11 premiers…11!!</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">We will worry about that next week, so relax and enjoy the week. And, oh yes, you had better stock up on the snacks. Oh, heck, just call in sick to work for the week so you can be sure to watch all of the shows you have on the DVR. Its OK, you deserve it.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/21/fall-tv-season-week-4get-the-dvr-fired-up-youll-need-it/#respond" title="Comment on FALL TV Season: Week 4…Get The DVR Fired Up; You’ll Need It">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/21/fall-tv-season-week-4get-the-dvr-fired-up-youll-need-it/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/21/fall-tv-season-week-4get-the-dvr-fired-up-youll-need-it/" dc:title="FALL TV Season: Week 4…Get The DVR Fired Up; You’ll Need It" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/21/fall-tv-season-week-4get-the-dvr-fired-up-youll-need-it/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1209"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/17/wearing-music-on-your-sleeve/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Wearing Music On Your Sleeve">Wearing Music On Your Sleeve</a></h2> <small>Posted September 17th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/uncategorized/" title="View all posts in Uncategorized" rel="category tag">Uncategorized</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p>By JAMES “TATTOO” CHAPRACKI<br /> geocities.com/tattoospinstriping</p> <p><img src="http://a92.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/127/l_82b2e9b99c1395a78472fb6d2700832b.jpg" /> </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/17/wearing-music-on-your-sleeve/#respond" title="Comment on Wearing Music On Your Sleeve">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/17/wearing-music-on-your-sleeve/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/17/wearing-music-on-your-sleeve/" dc:title="Wearing Music On Your Sleeve" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/17/wearing-music-on-your-sleeve/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1218"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/14/fall-tv-season-week-3-is-a-light-week-for-premiers/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Fall TV Season: Week 3 Is A Light Week For Premiers">Fall TV Season: Week 3 Is A Light Week For Premiers</a></h2> <small>Posted September 14th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/television/" title="View all posts in Television" rel="category tag">Television</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p><meta content="text/html; charset=utf-8" http-equiv="CONTENT-TYPE" /><title /><meta content="OpenOffice.org 2.4 (Win32)" name="GENERATOR" /><style type="text/css"> <!-- @page { size: 8.5in 11in; margin: 0.79in } P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } --> </style></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">By DA Southern</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">The Fall TV Season enters it’s third week, albeit very light, but before we get to that let’s see what has hit the fancy of the TV viewing public so far.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">The FOX network has done pretty decent promo of its season to-date and has cleaned up in the ratings so far. True, it is early, but the American public seems to like the robots in The Terminator series and the Tuesday night show, Fringe, garnered huge ratings, and has certainly earned its keep. It is definitely very X-files-ish in its style and has the brooding female character that Abrams loves so much in all of his shows. It is definitely worth watching, so catch up with it if you can. You can go over to <a href="http://www.hulu.com/">www.hulu.com</a> and watch the episode in full or try FOX.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">This week is a slim one for premiers with only two days this week having new programing and no new shows in the mix.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Tuesday</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">NBC has <strong>The Biggest Loser</strong> Families at 8:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">FOX has the <em><span style="font-style: normal">curmudgeon</span></em> Dr. <strong>House</strong> premiering at 9:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Thursday</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">CW has <strong>Smallville</strong> on at 8:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">and <strong>Supernatural </strong>on at 9:00 PM</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Here is the real madness of it all. Several of the Summer shows are still finishing up like <em>Monk and Psych</em> on USA and <em>Big Brother</em> on CBS, along with several other shows, and I believe that we really should be eased into it all. Hey, I’m the biggest fan of all and I love a diverse selection, but I have to say, I am enjoying the gentle glide into the new season. Don’t worry, next week will be a mass exodus to the Fall Season as 29 shows come blasting at your senses, but until then we will take our time and enjoy the shows as they dribble out to us.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">In this day and age, we are inundated with instant ratings and shows come and go so quickly that it seems as if we hardly get to know them. Fans are fickle and if a show slips from one commercial break to the next, we read about it in the blogasphere instantly. Even <em>90210</em> is being questioned as “Slipping” already. I suppose my point is that is up to you to decide for yourself and not be at the whim of so-called critics to tell you what you should watch.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Next week when the barrage of shows hit your screen, take the time to enjoy your favorites and if there is trouble on the horizon, I will let you know. Until then, relax and enjoy the viewing.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"><em /></p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/14/fall-tv-season-week-3-is-a-light-week-for-premiers/#respond" title="Comment on Fall TV Season: Week 3 Is A Light Week For Premiers">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/14/fall-tv-season-week-3-is-a-light-week-for-premiers/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/14/fall-tv-season-week-3-is-a-light-week-for-premiers/" dc:title="Fall TV Season: Week 3 Is A Light Week For Premiers" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/14/fall-tv-season-week-3-is-a-light-week-for-premiers/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1220"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/13/not-quite-wonderland/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Not Quite Wonderland">Not Quite Wonderland</a></h2> <small>Posted September 13th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/books/" title="View all posts in Books" rel="category tag">Books</a></small> <div class="entry"> <div style="float: left"><img height="200" width="200" src="http://images.epilogue.net/users/blondeblythe/ToniBoozer_AliceInWonderlandGothic.jpg" /></div> <p>By BEN SZMANDA</p> <p>There was a huge freak out when AM Homes’ novel the End of Alice was published, and it’s easy to see why:  270 pages of listening to a pedophile child killer reminisce, fantasize, and keep up with his correspondences is pure controversy bait.  It’s also abusive reading. Really, a first person narrative?  And to make it worse, the guy addresses the reader directly sometimes, suggesting that he’s catering the story to your tastes.  Plus, Homes makes you work to understand what’s happening here; it’s clear from the outset that it’s not possible to take what he’s describing as truth, so you have to pay extra attention to decipher what exactly happening.</p> <p>You are never sure, for example, how many children “Chappy”* has raped and murdered.  He describes one, but he also mentions being contacted by a large number of people: researchers, historians and fellow psychopaths write to him constantly twenty three years after he was arrested. That kind of notoriety leads you to assume that he is guilty of a lot more than what you are shown.</p> <p>Chappy is contacted by a college sophomore who describes in lurid detail her own approaches to a 12 year old boy.  This girl triggers Chappy’s recollections, and her stories begin to blend into his own.   In particular, her letters rouse his memories of the crime he was ultimately arrested for, the brutal rape and murder of a 12 year old girl named Alice.  Chappy’s version of Alice speaks like an intelligent adult; naturally, he blames her for everything that happens.  It is left to a prison review board to describe the actual crime, made all the worse by their use of legalese.</p> <p>Homes does a good job tying all the various strands of plot and recurring images together.  Chappy is disordered in the extreme, but the book itself is not.  The reason you can tell that Alice’s voice and behavior are entirely Chappy’s is that all the other voices heard in the book are so distinctive.   And while you never believe that he is anything other than a monster, the board’s description of the crime scene still comes as  a horrific revelation, and the fact that you have been listening to him talk for the past 200 pages becomes all more revolting.</p> <p>Chappy is about as close to pure evil as a human being could come with out the benefit of political power; He is what people replace the Thing Under the Bed with when they grow up.   But while Homes does a good job creating such a terrible person, it has to be said she doesn’t do much with him.  Chappy offers no real unique insight into psychology, or deviance, or evil, or anything really, other than Homes’ ability to talk at length about pedophilia.  Homes’ insight amounts to the same kind of stuff you’d find on an OK TV crime drama: Sex offenders were usually victims as kids, the line between the “deviant” and the “normal” world is blurry, blah blah.  All pretty hackneyed, and while it may be true, if I’m wading through something like this I expect a bit more in return.</p> <p>I went searching for other peoples comments on the End of Alice, and found an assessment in the National Review by <a target="_blank" href="http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m1282/is_n11_v48/ai_18399438">James Gardner</a>.  He was in full finger wagging mode, and painted this as “transgressive literature”, which “aspires to threaten the status quo that writers like Amy Tan and Bharati Mukherjee seek only to correct.” (Gardner goes on to tell us that that the unnamed college student is supposed to be some kind of feminist hero, which suggests he didn’t finish the book, but that’s beside the point.) I think he’s missing the point of stuff like this.  Homes isn’t “violently attacking our society’s morals”, she’s reinforcing them.  The cottage industry that surrounds serial killers and the like is largely fueled by the consumer’s desire for moral boundaries; they are looking for absolutes in a world they sense is losing them. Homes does her best to draw connections between Chappy and the rest of the world, true, but that’s the warning: If you don’t adhere to your morals, you too could become a monster.  This is the kind of thing that leaves the reader glad for the police, glad for their own sense of decency, and glad that people like Chappy are locked inside miles of concrete.  There is no Sadean revolt here, this is a celebration of the status quo. The only real difference between The End of Alice and the pulpier variety of this form can be found the technical skill and the endless brutality Homes employs; it is to the serial killer genre what Mel Gibson’s “Passion” was to the Good Friday narrative.</p> <p>I said The End of Alice was constructed well, and it is, Homes is a very good writer. This isn’t something I would recommend though.  It’s an ugly book; there are passages on almost every page that you will find yourself unconsciously passing over in self defense.  Your gag reflex will be triggered, often.  Odds are, unless you’re one of those poor bastards that feels compelled to finish everything they start (like me), you won’t get to the end. If you take this as some kind of dare, well, I can only wish you the best.  Me, I’m looking forward to not thinking about it ever again.</p> <p>*This is the name given to him by the reviewers I’ve come across.  Homes <a target="_blank" href="http://www.barcelonareview.com/59/e_int.htm">insists</a> here that this name isn’t in the text, or maybe she doesn’t, and is just being cute, who knows.  You can call it either laziness or spiritual self preservation on my part , but I’m not diving back in there to figure out who’s right– I’ll go with Chappy. </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/13/not-quite-wonderland/#respond" title="Comment on Not Quite Wonderland">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/13/not-quite-wonderland/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/13/not-quite-wonderland/" dc:title="Not Quite Wonderland" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/13/not-quite-wonderland/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1208"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/10/fly-and-flower/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Fly And Flower">Fly And Flower</a></h2> <small>Posted September 10th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/uncategorized/" title="View all posts in Uncategorized" rel="category tag">Uncategorized</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p>By JAMES “TATTOO” CHAPRACKI<br /> geocities.com/tattoospinstriping</p> <p><img src="http://a33.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/116/l_9677bc631d2a48bf8f6c0e0c5dfd44d0.jpg" /> </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/10/fly-and-flower/#respond" title="Comment on Fly And Flower">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/10/fly-and-flower/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/10/fly-and-flower/" dc:title="Fly And Flower" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/10/fly-and-flower/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1214"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/06/fall-tv-season-week-2a-few-good-looking-shows-on-tap/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Fall TV Season: Week 2…A Few Good Looking Shows on Tap">Fall TV Season: Week 2…A Few Good Looking Shows on Tap</a></h2> <small>Posted September 6th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/television/" title="View all posts in Television" rel="category tag">Television</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p>By DA Southern</p> <p>The fall TV Season rolls out ever so gently over the horizon as we get used to spending more times at night in front of our old friend.  With a few programs under our belt last week, this week promises a bit more fun as we get more of the new shows starting to premier.  Last week went pretty much as expected with 90210 garnering a pretty good share of the younger market on FOX, which was the intent…to build an early audience.  It was OK, for the most part, and had its moments, but I will have other fish to fry as the season gets into full bloom.</p> <p>So, what is on tap for this week?  Well here you go…</p> <p>Sunday is all HBO as they bring back the boys of Entourage at 10:00 PM and a brand new Vampire flick, True Blood at 9:00 PM.  Like all HBO stuff, they will be repeated but the Vampire show does look interesting, so catch it so you can chat around the microwave in the break-room.</p> <p>Monday, and most of the week, is pretty much about FOX getting their schedule out there as quick as possible.  8:00 PM brings back the Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles, for the only debut of the evening.</p> <p>Tuesday has Fringe on FOX at 8:00 PM and the comedy Privileged at 9:00 PM on the CW.  Fringe is a drama with scifi elements following the FBI probe of mysterious deaths aboard an airplane that landed at Boston’s Logan Airport. But the deaths aboard Flight 627 are only the beginning of the story. Executive producers include J.J. Abrams (’Lost’) and his ‘Mission: Impossible III’ co-screenwriters, Roberto Orci and Alex Kurtzman.   Privileged is about a young woman who becomes a live-in tutor for rebellious twin teens in Palm Beach, Fla., and adjusts to life among the rich and powerful.  I have been looking so forward to the Fringe as I am a huge fan of anything Abrams has done.  Did you know he is helming the new Star Trek movie as well.  Man alive, that guy is busy!</p> <p>Wednesday, the Brad Garrett FOX comedy, ‘Til Death, is back on at 9:00 PM and the strong cast of Do Not Disturb, swings at you at 9:30 PM.  Do Not Disturb, starring Jerry O’Connell stars as the manager of a rag-tag group of victims from the Zylon attack on the colony…opps, sorry…just seeing if you’re paying attention.  Really, it is a comedy about the staff of a hip New York City hotel called The Inn and it looks to be pretty funny, at least from the excerpts I have seen so far.</p> <p>Thursday is all FOX again with a game show that looks as goofy as can be called Hole in the Wall at 8:00 PM and my favorite Chef in the whole world, Gordon Ramsey is back at it Kitchen Nightmares at 9:00 PM.  In Hole in the Wall, Contestants contort themselves to avoid oddly shaped obstacles hurtling toward them (and face dunking in a pool beneath them if they can’t) in this team game imported from Japan. Other versions of the series have been produced in Argentina, Australia, Brazil, China, Colombia, Denmark, Germany, Hong Kong, India, Israel, Malaysia, Mexico, Russia, Sweden and the U.K.  Certainly a nice diversion, but when Thursday night TV gets going in all of its glory, the only Hole in the Wall will be the time period left open when this thing disappears.</p> <p>Friday has the FOX fav, Don’t Forget the Lyrics, on again at 9:00 PM, you know, the singing show about forgetting lyrics…Oh, never mind…and Saturday brings the late night comedies back, longtime staple, Saturday Night Live on NBC and the FOX hit, MAD TV to give your Saturday evening some smiles.  Hey, it is the political season, so you know SNL will have their heyday.</p> <p>As I said, it is a slow roll-out the first part of the month with the week of September 21st being the heavy-hitter of the month with a whopping 29 shows premiering.  Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered and I’ll make sure you have what you need to make an intelligent decision.  Well, OK…MY intelligent decision…but it is OK to trust me.  I mean, after all, we’ve been together for over a year, right?  Heck, I’ve lasted longer with you, my trusted cactus audience, that with some of my relationships.  Maybe it’s because I watch too much TV.  I don’t know, but anyway…trust me…and wander back next week to set your TV schedule for the upcoming week. </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/06/fall-tv-season-week-2a-few-good-looking-shows-on-tap/#respond" title="Comment on Fall TV Season: Week 2…A Few Good Looking Shows on Tap">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/06/fall-tv-season-week-2a-few-good-looking-shows-on-tap/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/06/fall-tv-season-week-2a-few-good-looking-shows-on-tap/" dc:title="Fall TV Season: Week 2…A Few Good Looking Shows on Tap" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/06/fall-tv-season-week-2a-few-good-looking-shows-on-tap/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1221"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/06/difference-of-opinions/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Difference Of Opinions">Difference Of Opinions</a></h2> <small>Posted September 6th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/books/" title="View all posts in Books" rel="category tag">Books</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p>By BEN SZMANDA</p> <p>I don’t think there has ever been a time when I completely agreed with Christopher Hitchens.  Prior to 9/11 he was a Trotskyite; days after the attacks, Hitchens did a costume change and re-emerged as a military interventionist –one that used the same arguments as the neo-conservatives, only with far more skill, and with an actual sense of humor. That’s the thing about Hitchens, whatever his opinions, he always kept up the quality level of his output.  And that’s why I keep reading his columns, in spite of the fact that I almost always disagree.  In general, my take on Hitchens himself sums up my take on his book God is Not Great, too: I sort of agree, but I mostly don’t, I find some really disturbing elements in his position, and  his sense of style keeps me reading.</p> <p>Style is the key word for this book.  Come on now, it’s not like in 2008 we expect to hear something new.  If you believe in god, you say a, b, or c; if you don’t you respond 1, 2 or 3; the only difference is that now the Hubble telescope gets involved. So when you pick up a book arguing one way or another, you approach it like you would listen to jazz performers playing Autumn Leaves:  You listen for their handling of an old standard, rather than to hear a novel composition.</p> <p>Obviously, Hitchens comes down on the atheist side of things.  His basic argument is that religion is a reactionary force that gives us a false understanding of ourselves, the world, and it’s origins, and reinforces those false claims with violence, while imposing stifling sexual prohibitions.</p> <p>I’m not religious, but I’ve got a few problems with this argument. This is way too broad a brush.  Some religions do that, certainly, but others don’t   There are plenty of liberal denominations inside the worlds religions that are cool with evolution, see Genesis as an allegory, and don’t really care what you do in the bedroom, provided it is consensual.  If Hitchens had said fundamentalism did these things—hey, great: I agree completely.  But he didn’t, because fundamentalism isn’t the target here. Hitchens wants to discredit all religion, which is fine, but this isn’t the right argument to use.</p> <p>Hitchens thinks it is.  He goes on to say that he would not ”prohibit [religion] if I could”.  Which would be decent of him, but unfortunately it’s just the beginning of a feint. “But will the religious grant me the same indulgence? I ask because there is a real and serious difference between me and my religious friends, and the real and serious friends are sufficiently honest to admit it.”  Did you catch that?  This is a standard authoritarian trope: You claim that you personally have nothing against leaving blank group unmolested—after all, some of your best friends are verminous blanks—but sadly, that group won’t ever return the favor.  I’ve heard fundamentalist Christians say the same thing about gays, atheists, liberals, etc. Keep that in mind, I’ll come back to it.   Bonus points for the “friends” technique too, if only because it’s pretty funny.  What kind of friends are these, that over drinks tell you, “haha, no, but seriously, I’m going to cut your head off and put it on youtube, because you are vile infidel scum”?  I have friends I disagree with.  Sometimes we have arguments. Sometimes those arguments get heated. But while we each think the other is misinformed or whatever, we always assume that the other arguing in good faith.  That’s how we can disagree and still call each other “friends”.</p> <p>But anyway, this is the basic argument.  From here Hitchens tries to flush out its finer points. There are two threads here:  First, that religious extremism is responsible for an amazing amount of suffering, and second, that the fundamental basis for belief in the supernatural is absurd.  For Hitchens’ broadside against all religion everywhere to work, and in order to prove that religion, as Hitchens says repeatedly, ”<em>poisons everything”,</em>  these two threads need to be connected.  Ultimately, I don’t think he does it.</p> <p>Hitchens goes through the Old Testament, the New Testament and the Koran, and finds he doesn’t like any of them.   Neither do I, to be honest—not as a source for “truth” anyway.  But I know, however, that among the folks that enjoy the Yahweh Action Trilogy, there is a considerable number of textual interpretations.  There are Jews, Christians and Muslims that draw benign comfort from these stories; some extract a measure of wisdom — or enlightenment, if you like.  And yes, there are others that decide the best way worship their god is to kill as many non-believers as they can.  The deciding factor is not the focal point of the believer, but it is the believer themselves.  It’s the way you believe.  His line of attack against all three books is familiar.  The Penteauch was not written my Moses, the New Testament was written decades after the death of Christ, and the Koran was drawn at least in good part from oral traditions from the two earlier faiths.  He also tells us that the Old Testament is incredibly brutal, depicting scenes of genocide, ethnic cleansing, mass rape, and all the other atrocities expected from a bloody tribal existence.  All true, and for the most part accepted by modern followers.  What he says is very worth considering, but I don’t think he makes the indictment he was trying to make.</p> <p>In order to extend his critique to all religion, Hitchens goes after eastern religion as well.  Honestly, this chapter was a bit limited.  His response to all eastern faiths is summed up in critiques of the Bhagwan Sri Rashneesh, the Dalai Lama and Japanese Zen.  Rashneesh is a cult leader—easy.  Hitchens doesn’t like the Dalai Lama because he is a monarch who makes statements condemning homosexuality.  His criticism of Zen is drawn from Zen at War, the excellent book by Brian Victoria, which I’ve covered here. So two kinds of Buddhism and a cult leader define all of eastern religion.  This leaves out the Zen sects from other countries that didn’t fall sway to fascism, the Theravaden school(that is not only totally ok with homosexuality, but is also not run by a king), Hinduism, Taoism, Jainism, Sikhism, etc.  You can certainly criticize all of these –some of them very harshly—but he doesn’t do this.  And again, he has no interest or sympathy for the believers–like Brian Victoria, in fact– who have dedicated themselves to reforming their faiths.  He does touch on some of the abuses of Hindu society, such as the caste system and the now banned practice of suttee, in other parts of the book.  But even including that, it doesn’t feel like the best made argument.</p> <p>The closest Hitchens comes to proving his case is in his discussion of the Catholic Church.  This is about as “mainstream” a religion as you can get.  The extremists in Catholicism are not necessarily the ones responsible for the worst of the Churches crimes, either. But two if the worst of these crimes, the vast sex abuse scandal, and Papal complicity with fascism and Nazi Germany, are better explained as a result of authoritarianism, rather than as a result of faith.  When reviewing Zen at War I said that it’s not surprising to see a religious elite ally themselves with the political elites. That’s what elites do: they maintain their power by working together.  As for the sex abuse scandal, it seems that the ultra-hierarchical nature of the church, its leader’s interest in self preservation, and the church’s belief in its own infallibility are enough to explain the results.  But this is an argument for transparency and democracy, not atheism.  If a Lutheran or Baptist minister, who is hired by his parish, gets caught raping kids, the same thing doesn’t happen.  He would be prosecuted, and if for some reason the was a miscarriage of justice, you could at least be assured that he would be out of a job.  What he wouldn’t be is spirited to another parish in the middle of no where to victimize another round of children.  Hitchens’ best point is that both actions (as well as others) point to the absurdity of claiming papal infallibility.  No argument from me on that count.</p> <p>This difference between the dangers of absolute power and the dangers of faith is something that Hitchens glosses over.  He argues that while religious apologists claim that their faith has “reformed”, they ignore the fact hat they would behave quite differently if they were still in power.  He’s right, but that’s because <em><span style="font-style: italic">no one should have the power the church had, religious or secular</span></em>.</p> <p>He anticipates people might remind him about the 20<sup>th</sup> century’s secular totalitarianisms, but he chooses to do a silly side step rather than address this point, because it undercuts his argument.</p> <p>He also seems to give Lenin and Trotsky something of a pass, by the way: He acknowledges that they were indeed atheists and then quickly moves on.  I’d ignore it, but it suggests a certain absolutist mindset most authoritarians have. If so and so agrees with me, their crimes are probably explainable.  Thankfully, Hitchens doesn’t give Stalin the same treatment; unfortunately, he resorts to some rhetorical dodges that are beneath him.  Stalin is said to have developed a cult of personality, and therefore was kind of religious, sorta.  He actually cites the book The God that Failed as an example.  I agree that there is plenty of common ground between communism, fascism, and religion—John Gray’s excellent Black Mass does a good job showing this, and then connects the dots to neo-conservatism as well—but Hitchen’s argument here is strained.</p> <p>I’m probably coming off as sounding a lot harsher than I would like.  God is not Great is enjoyable, challenging and informative—it is also very obviously heartfelt.  You can sense him getting angry, righteously angry, through the page, and for the most part you’re on his side. Hitchens concludes his book by calling for a new enlightenment, and he offers a sincere hope that reason and science take back some ground against the forces of superstition and irrationality.  I’ll happily agree to that one, God knows it’s about time. </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/06/difference-of-opinions/#respond" title="Comment on Difference Of Opinions">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/06/difference-of-opinions/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/06/difference-of-opinions/" dc:title="Difference Of Opinions" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/06/difference-of-opinions/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1213"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/05/1213/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Palin Power">Palin Power</a></h2> <small>Posted September 5th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/politicscurrent-events/" title="View all posts in Politics/Current events" rel="category tag">Politics/Current events</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p><img height="225" src="http://rds.yahoo.com/_ylt=A0WTbx_D9MBIvPMAqf6jzbkF/SIG=128ctd5ru/EXP=1220691523/**http%3A//www.alaskareport.com/images2/sarah_palin3.jpg" width="177" /></p> <p>Jim Montana                                                                                           </p> <p><a href="mailto:jim.montana@hotmail.com">jim.montana@hotmail.com</a></p> <p><font size="3"><font face="Calibri">On Wednesday night America got it’s first real look at Sarah Palin. Now I want to be the first to acknowledge that McCain appeared to have made a wise choice for his running mate, but look past the smile and the “gee golly I’m just a small town girl” appearance and you see her stances on the issues that affect me and you everyday. For instance you have her opposition to stem cell research, and would choose life even if her own daughter was raped. Moving on to her views on civil rights and you see where she has drank the George Bush Kool-Aid as she has come out and said that marriage is between one man and one woman, in addition she is opposed to any kind of hate crime laws whatsoever. Now for the marijuana smokers out there she admits to smoking it when it was legal under Alaska law. Now it could have been worse McCain could have chosen Lieberman, getting back to her speech I can honestly say that while I oppose the GOP Sarah Palin knocked it out of the park with her speech. She almost made me forget that she is a Republican,  I however do not think that we need another four years of the Bush Cheney show, and that is exactly what we will get with the McCain Palin ticket.  Now as far as John McCain’s speech goes another out of the park speech only problem he is also a Bushie and will lead this country into another four years of the failed policies we have suffered under for the last eight years. So the bottom line of all of this is simple you can either choose a candidate that is inexperienced or a candidate who will give you more of the same, good luck America.    </font></font> </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/05/1213/#respond" title="Comment on Palin Power">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/05/1213/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/05/1213/" dc:title="Palin Power" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/05/1213/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1160"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/03/the-after/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to The After">The After</a></h2> <small>Posted September 3rd, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/uncategorized/" title="View all posts in Uncategorized" rel="category tag">Uncategorized</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p>By JAMES “TATTOO” CHAPRACKI<br /> geocities.com/tattoospinstriping</p> <p>The crappy stuff is covered up.</p> <p><img src="http://a621.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/106/l_614f3abb71f3fa959f0f80e389667534.jpg" /> </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/03/the-after/#respond" title="Comment on The After">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/03/the-after/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/03/the-after/" dc:title="The After" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/03/the-after/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1212"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/are-you-ready-for-some-football/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Are You Ready For Some Football">Are You Ready For Some Football</a></h2> <small>Posted September 1st, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/sports/" title="View all posts in Sports" rel="category tag">Sports</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p> <img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-38" height="172" src="http://fixmagazine.wordpress.com/files/2008/08/nfl-football1.jpg?w=300" width="167" /></p> <p>Jim Montana                                                                                                                                                            </p> <p><a href="mailto:jim.montana@hotmail.com">jim.montana@hotmail.com</a></p> <p>It’s that time of the year again, time for coaches and owners to see if their offseason planning and praying have done any good. we are still a little older two days away from Kickoff Weekend and I am like a kid waiting for Christmas eve. so to pass the time I have come up with a review of the top players and teams to watch in the upcoming season. Naturally everyone is going to keep their eye on the New York Jets and their Quarterback Brett Favre, I personally feel that the man with the rocket arm should have not returned for this one reason, he will have every eye fixed on him and every interception people will be saying that he should have never come back. other Quarterbacks to keep your eye on will be Eli Manning of the Giants along with Jay Cutler, Peyton Manning and Tony Romo. looking at the position of Running Back the top pick has to go to LaDainian Tomlinson however a player that I feel is being overlooked is DeAngelo Williams, expect great thing from this kid from Memphis. Now I don’t claim to know who will win the Super Bowel that job is for other people I do know this though do not expect to see the Giants or the Colts in the playoffs this year, while both of the Manning brothers had a great season last year 2008 will not be kind to them this year. Look for Washington to rise up back to their glory and give a honest chase for the Super Bowel </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/are-you-ready-for-some-football/#respond" title="Comment on Are You Ready For Some Football">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/are-you-ready-for-some-football/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/are-you-ready-for-some-football/" dc:title="Are You Ready For Some Football" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/are-you-ready-for-some-football/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1210"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/were-having-a-contest/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to We’re Having A Contest">We’re Having A Contest</a></h2> <small>Posted September 1st, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/editors-corner/" title="View all posts in Editor's Corner" rel="category tag">Editor's Corner</a></small> <div class="entry"> <div style="float: left"><img width="200" height="200" src="http://www.northpolesnow.com/graphics/prize_pg_present.gif" /></div> <p>It’s been a while since we had any sort of contest on this site, so guess what’s coming for September.</p> <p>You got it.</p> <p>Since we have some prizes left over from our old contests, this one will be sponsored by the lovely <a target="_blank" href="http://michaeljmedia.com/">Michael J. Media</a>.</p> <p>The premise is simple: Post a link to the cactus anywhere on the world wide web and send us a screen shot of it. If you don’t know how, send me an email and I’ll walk you through it.</p> <p>You can post a banner — found at myspace.com/cactusiv — or a link. As long as you’re not spamming boards, we’re fine with it. When it’s posted, send a screen shot to cactusiv(at)gmail.com.<br /> We’re going to verify all the links at the end of the contest, and the person with the most will win an awesome prize pack.</p> <p>The contest starts on Sept. 1st and ends on the 30th. Staff members are eligible, and chances are they already have a link on their MySpace pages. So what are you waiting for?</p> <p>Love and cacti,<br /> LISA SOKOLOWSKI<br /> Editor-in-Chief<br /> cactusiv(at)gmail.com </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/were-having-a-contest/#respond" title="Comment on We’re Having A Contest">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/were-having-a-contest/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/were-having-a-contest/" dc:title="We’re Having A Contest" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/were-having-a-contest/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1211"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/time-zone-drama/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Time Zone Drama">Time Zone Drama</a></h2> <small>Posted September 1st, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/music/" title="View all posts in Music" rel="category tag">Music</a></small> <div class="entry"> <div style="float: left"><img width="200" height="200" src="http://www.quizilla.com/user_images/S/SH/SHA/ShakeItLikeAPolaroid/1184919371_eacademyis.jpg" /></div> <p>By LISA SOKOLOWSKI<br /> cactusiv(at)gmail.com</p> <p>In my real life, I had a chance to interview Adam Siska, bassist of The Academy Is…</p> <p>Super nice guy.</p> <p>We chatted about the band’s new album, which was released on Aug. 19. We talked before the album’s drop date, and I found out something weird — the day of the album’s release didn’t exist for the guys.</p> <p>See, the band was on Warped Tour and were flying to Australia on Aug. 18, when Warped was finished.</p> <p>Because of the time difference, they were landing in Australia on Aug. 20.</p> <p>So, Aug. 19 never existed for the guys. Sure, the record came out and sold some copies, but the guys were completely unable to buy it on the street date.</p> <p>Welcome to some sort of <em>Twilight Zone</em>. </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/time-zone-drama/#respond" title="Comment on Time Zone Drama">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/time-zone-drama/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/time-zone-drama/" dc:title="Time Zone Drama" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/09/01/time-zone-drama/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1206"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/31/its-fall-tv-season-time-do-you-have-fresh-batteries-in-your-remote/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to It’s Fall TV Season Time; Do You Have Fresh Batteries In Your Remote?">It’s Fall TV Season Time; Do You Have Fresh Batteries In Your Remote?</a></h2> <small>Posted August 31st, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/television/" title="View all posts in Television" rel="category tag">Television</a></small> <div class="entry"> <div style="float: left"><img width="200" height="200" src="http://acocontractors.com/images/television.jpg" /></div> <p>By DA SOUTHERN<br /> dasouthern(at)gmail.com</p> <p>Summer is over as are the Olympics and we are inching ever so close to the exciting Fall TV season. You trusty TV correspondent, DA Southern, is back on the case and I will be preparing you for your journey into the Fall TV season and this year it looks as though we will have clear sailing on the seas known as the Fall TV Season.So, with that being said, I want to tell you how I think we will look at it this year. As each week progresses, I will be telling you what is premiering, the time based on EST, the Network and the scope on the show as far as I know it. Fair enough? Good, then let’s get going…</p> <p>Okay, so here is what is coming at you this week;</p> <p>Monday<br /> 8:00 PM - <em>Gossip Girl (CW), Prison Break (Fox)</em><br /> 9:00 PM – <em>One Tree Hill (CW)</em></p> <p>Tuesday<br /> 8:00 PM – <em>90210 (CW)</em><br /> 10:00 PM – <em>The Shield (FX)</em></p> <p>Wednesday<br /> 8:00 PM –<em> America’s Next Top Model (CW), Bones (Fox)</em></p> <p>Friday<br /> 8:00 PM – <em>Are You Smarter Than A Fifth Grader (Fox)</em></p> <p>The biggest chat for the shows this week is, of course, the updated version of <em>90210</em>. It certainly made stars out of many of the original cast and this one has a lot of the up and coming young stars in Hollywoodland. Of course, with all of the hype about it, the producers of the show were exceptionally smart to get it going early to help build an audience, if it is deserving of one. I am predicting that it will appeal to many of the younger set and with some of the original stars coming back to reprise roles, it may hook some of the folks that used to watch as well. We will have a pretty good indication after Monday’s premier, so, if nothing else exciting is happening to you on the Holiday, give it a look-see.</p> <p>The other excitement is the start of the final season of <em>The Shield</em> on FX, and if you have been watching the show at all, you know it will probably not end well for many of the characters. Maybe they will do a Sopranos-type of ending which would actually work for me because as tragic as some of these characters have been, I am not too excited about watching them come to a bitter demise. What can I say… I’m a “Glass half full” kind of guy.</p> <p><em>Prison Break</em> looks to have some cool new elements this year and rumor has it that Michael gets rid of his full body Tattoo so he can start to wear nicer shirts this year and not look like… well, a convict so much. And the biggest non-surprise is that the thought dead, Sara, is not so dead and seems to have regained her head about wanting to be back on the show.</p> <p><em>Bones</em> is going to dealing with the loss of one the main characters from last season who turned out to be Darth Vader’s apprentice and was seen, well, at least presumed to being sent to the “Big House” for being a serial-killer-in-training. Bummer! So, we will be dealing with that and whether or not there will be any more romance between the two main characters in the show. I love Bones and think it was cool how they did sacrifice one of their own as many shows do when it comes time to shake things up a bit. It was just a nice twist.</p> <p>The only other show that is actually not on the “Premier” list is <em>Deal Or No Deal</em>, which promises to have their first million dollar winner this Monday night. That should be fun to watch.</p> <p>I am excited about the season this year and we will have a lot of returning favorites that we did not get to know too well due to the strike-shortened season last year. I will be on top of it so check back each week for the TV column and, who knows, from time to time, I might even slip in an occasional tidbit or two during the week if I think it is just too good to wait for the weekly look.</p> <p>It’s great to be back and I hope all of you have had a great summer and we will look forward together to the new season. </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/31/its-fall-tv-season-time-do-you-have-fresh-batteries-in-your-remote/#respond" title="Comment on It’s Fall TV Season Time; Do You Have Fresh Batteries In Your Remote?">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/31/its-fall-tv-season-time-do-you-have-fresh-batteries-in-your-remote/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/31/its-fall-tv-season-time-do-you-have-fresh-batteries-in-your-remote/" dc:title="It’s Fall TV Season Time; Do You Have Fresh Batteries In Your Remote?" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/31/its-fall-tv-season-time-do-you-have-fresh-batteries-in-your-remote/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1205"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/30/one-down-one-to-go/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to One Down One to Go">One Down One to Go</a></h2> <small>Posted August 30th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/politicscurrent-events/" title="View all posts in Politics/Current events" rel="category tag">Politics/Current events</a></small> <div class="entry"> <div style="float: left"><img width="200" height="200" src="http://www.2004dnc.com/2008presidentialelection/DNCC_logo_dnc2008_1_500.jpg" /></div> <p>By JIM MONTANA</p> <p>jim.montana(at)hotmail.com</p> <p>Well week one of the grueling two week convention marathon is over, and we all learned that Hillary Clinton has more poise and grace than we all thought she did. The day after her “I’m with Barack” speech, Clinton appeared at the convention during the roll call and moved to name Obama the Democratic nominee.</p> <p>Then came Thursday night and the “Obama has a dream” speech, which I can tell you did not live up to the hype that it was built up to. At least Invesco Field got some major air time. “Go Broncos.”</p> <p>All and all the Democrats were a major let down during their convention, so now it’s off to St. Paul and time to visit the Larry Craig international airport bathroom.</p> <p>And in case you have not heard, McCain choose Alaska Gov. Sara Palin as his running mate.</p> <p>Until next time, it’s off to Minnioplois see you soon. </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/30/one-down-one-to-go/#respond" title="Comment on One Down One to Go">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/30/one-down-one-to-go/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/30/one-down-one-to-go/" dc:title="One Down One to Go" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/30/one-down-one-to-go/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1207"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/30/less-can-be-more/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Less Can Be More">Less Can Be More</a></h2> <small>Posted August 30th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/books/" title="View all posts in Books" rel="category tag">Books</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p>By BEN SZMANDA</p> <p>If you are going to write a piece of very short fiction, you have to make sure that you imply far more than what goes down on paper; the shorter the story, the more demands are placed on every word. Why am I regurgitating truisms at you? Because I came across someone who actually does it very well — so well that the end product is almost mind altering. That sounds like hyperbole, but it really isn’t: The stories in Rikki Ducornet’s Complete Butcher’s Tales invite comparisons to magical incantations or opiate induced nightmares, and they stay with you long after you put the book down and try to focus on other things.</p> <p>Part of this effect is produced by Ducornet’s writing. It’s strange to find it inside such a rigorously minimalist form, but she uses almost baroque language to describe events, offering bursts of poetic description so well placed and so inventive that they pull the reader into the story line almost forcibly. You have no choice but to accept the narrative because its hypnotic power is overwhelming. And what you find yourself accepting is almost uniformly insane.</p> <p>Each of Ducornet’s stories have a beautiful internal logic, but that logic is anchored to foundations that twist the whole structure into monstrous shapes. She writes stories about the mentally ill, written from inside their head, offering only the traces their dysfunction leaves on the outside world as a sign of a problem. Sometimes you spend the entire story with the person before you realize just how far from reality they are. Other times, Ducornet creates a whole other world, filled with science fiction nightmares, or (literally) satanic palaces, and dares you to believe in them. It’s never clear what’s real. Is the jade planet actually crashing into the Earth? Is it altering the shape of new born baby’s heads with its approach? Does it have enormous, unreadable runes carved into its surface? Is everyone on earth being driven insane by their impending death, or is the entire story a delusion from one deeply ill man? Who knows.</p> <p>But it’s not just illness or fantasy that Ducornet gets you inside of, it’s evil. You meet a defrocked priest who is guilty of raping and murdering a small boy, then burying the remains in his basement. Or maybe not, maybe his crime (or crimes, there may have been other children) is just as illusory as the Jade planet: An invention of a lonely brain, looking for some external source to judge it, and by judging it acknowledge its existence. Maybe he’s looking for damnation for some sort of grim reassurance. You are never sure if you should hate this man or pity him; like the rest of stories, you are denied any stable ground.</p> <p>There are somewhere around 60 stories in this 172 page collection; obviously not every one of them is a winner. But there is nothing screamingly bad here, or even unpleasant or uninteresting, there are just a few that don’t work as well as the others: They feel a bit uneven, or don’t come up with an satisfying ending. There is nothing that detracts from Ducornet’s power when she does well, though. Nothing could. </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/30/less-can-be-more/#respond" title="Comment on Less Can Be More">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/30/less-can-be-more/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/30/less-can-be-more/" dc:title="Less Can Be More" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/30/less-can-be-more/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1159"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/27/crappy-tat-before/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Crappy Tat Before">Crappy Tat Before</a></h2> <small>Posted August 27th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/uncategorized/" title="View all posts in Uncategorized" rel="category tag">Uncategorized</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p>By JAMES “TATTOO” CHAPRACKI<br /> geocities.com/tattoospinstriping</p> <p>You’re gonna have to wait until next week for the after.</p> <p><img src="http://a6.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/128/l_540231d6ecba888cbdf84736ac4d279d.jpg" /> </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/27/crappy-tat-before/#respond" title="Comment on Crappy Tat Before">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/27/crappy-tat-before/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/27/crappy-tat-before/" dc:title="Crappy Tat Before" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/27/crappy-tat-before/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1204"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/27/can-i-get-your-credit-score-number/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Can I Get Your (Credit Score) Number?">Can I Get Your (Credit Score) Number?</a></h2> <small>Posted August 27th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/money-and-banking/" title="View all posts in Money and Banking" rel="category tag">Money and Banking</a></small> <div class="entry"> <div style="float: left"><img width="200" height="200" src="http://www.unitedcreditadjusters.com/unitedcreditajusters/images/fico_score.gif" /></div> <p>By BETH OLIVER<br /> betwitching88(at)msn.com</p> <p>You still live in your parent’s basement, drive their car and consider honing your video games skills a full time job. You don’t need to worry about your credit score and how it will affect your life. But what about the rest of us? What exactly is a credit score and why is it important?</p> <p>Your FICO (Fair Isaac & Co.) is a credit rating that is complied by credit reporting agencies. The number is based on many factors. Some of those factors are how long have you had credit cards or loans, do you pay on time, your outstanding balances, the number of inquires on your reports and available credit.</p> <p>Why should you care? In order to get the best loan rates on a car, mortgage or the lowest interest rate on credit cards, you need to have a score of 700 or greater. Those great 0 percent rates we all see, read the fine print and it will say something like “based on credit score or credit worthiness.” You will still be able to get credit cards and loans if your score is lower, but you will be paying for it with a higher interest rate. The difference in rates for a 700 score or better and below 700 can be 10 percent or more on credit cards. Do the math. That is a huge difference in your finance charges each month.</p> <p>You know that dream apartment you want? Chances are the landlord will be pulling your credit report. They want to make sure you pay your bills on time. Your credit report also shows your previous addresses on file. Landlords like that too so they can see if you plan on sticking around for awhile or not. The dream job of yours? You guessed it; they will be pulling your credit report. While most employers are not looking at your score, some do. And even if they don’t look at the score, your report still shows them everything they are looking for. Your credit report includes medical bills, utility bills that are not paid on time, school loans along with credit cards, bank loans and more.</p> <p>That cool iPhone or Blackberry you want? Cell phone companies pull your credit too. Your score not high enough? They will probably still give you a phone but you will have to put down a huge security deposit. Your car insurance, yep you will be paying a higher rate if your credit score is low or not good. But not just a low score will affect you, having no score is just as bad.</p> <p>Throughout our lives, the majority of us will need credit at some time. With housing, potential employers, your car insurance and your employment depending on it, you need to protect your credit and your score and do all you can to improve it. You never know who is going to want to know about your credit report. Pretty soon it will be more important than your height or eye color on those dating Web sites too. </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/27/can-i-get-your-credit-score-number/#respond" title="Comment on Can I Get Your (Credit Score) Number?">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/27/can-i-get-your-credit-score-number/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/27/can-i-get-your-credit-score-number/" dc:title="Can I Get Your (Credit Score) Number?" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/27/can-i-get-your-credit-score-number/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1203"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/23/theres-more-to-china-than-the-olympics/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to There’s More To China Than The Olympics">There’s More To China Than The Olympics</a></h2> <small>Posted August 23rd, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/books/" title="View all posts in Books" rel="category tag">Books</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p>By BEN SZMANDA</p> <p>At the beginning of the 20<sup>th</sup> century, China had essentially become spoils for the various European empires to divvy up amongst themselves. The Manchu dynasty was incredibly weak: Its remaining strength had been turned on any reform minded citizen brave enough to attempt to modify Confucian traditions. Resentment brewed. Even worse, in the year 1900, a terrible drought destroyed crops, dislocated farmers and pushed more peasants to submit to the power of foreign merchants and missionaries. The situation was an obvious recipe for unrest, and, sure enough, a strange martial arts sect staged a bloody uprising. The Boxers United in Righteousness believed that by performing certain rituals, the sprits of popular deities (often characters from Romance of the Three Kingdoms or Journey to the West) would possess them, rendering them invulnerable to bullets. They focused their rage on Christian missionaries and their Chinese converts, and left a wide swath of destruction that lead to open warfare with the imperial powers; the Manchu dynasty was afraid of losing control and stupidly sided with the Boxers. When the predictable response came—in the form of a brutal European invasion that killed anything in its path—China found herself even further in subjugation. This is the bare bones summary of the boxer uprising, and the basis for Paul Cohen’s remarkable book History in Three Keys: the Boxer Rebellion in Event, Experience and Myth.</p> <p>Cohen is intending a lot more than a mere retelling of history here: History in Three Keys is as much about the actual Boxer Rebellion as it is about he way people describe the Boxer Rebellion; a History of the Boxer Rebellions history. This is important stuff, because the Boxers have been used, very effectively, to advance an entire host of ideologies.</p> <p>Cohen divides his book into three distinct sections: a history of the uprising, a collection of narratives from people who experienced it, and a survey of how the Boxer myth was instrumentalized by the Europeans, the anti-imperialists, the New Culture movement, and the Chinese Communist Party.</p> <p>I’ve read a few other books on the Boxer Rebellion, and what frustrated me about them was their strict focus on the plight of the westerners trapped in the legation districts. Let me be clear: I’m not saying that these people did not suffer, nor am I arguing that their experiences are uninteresting, or devoid of historical importance. Herbert Hoover was there, for example, and comported himself admirably– That’s interesting. But these voices are no where near the whole story. The violence and turmoil affected them, certainly, but what they experienced was nothing like what the Chinese nationals went through. Cohen provides those Chinese voices, offering a host of testimonials from Manchu officials, to Chinese Christians, to testimony from the Boxers themselves. The result is a much fuller picture than anything else I have seen.</p> <p>The larger pool of voices that Cohen draws from enables him to tell a richer story. He traces the results of the drought, and points out the droughts are often assigned supernatural causes, and are likely to lead people to appeal to supernatural solutions—not only in China, but everywhere else too. He points to the modern use of rain dances in Iowa, as an example. Another obvious choice would be the Governor of <a target="_blank" href="http://articles.latimes.com/2007/nov/14/nation/na-rain14">Georgia</a> praying for rain last year. The Chinese peasantry aren’t alone in this, apparently.</p> <p>Almost immediately after the Boxer Uprising was put down, it began to be mined for propaganda purposes by almost everybody with an interest in the region. Propaganda is not an attempt at drawing out truth, of course, so very often the story of the Boxer rebellion lost key parts in the retelling. The imperialist nations, whose continued purpose in China could now be justified by the violence, pointed to the bizarre beliefs and brutality of the Boxers. The reformers of the New Culture Movement, and the CCP at their early stages, pointed to the same things, and used them as the basis for their argument that the Chinese culture needed to be modernized. Later on, the CCP had far different motives for using the Boxers as propaganda. During the Cultural Revolution , court historians, under the influence of Madam Mao, ignored the superstitions of invincibility and spirit possession(we can assume that they had become ok with the brutality), and focused solely on the anti imperialist attitude of the Boxers. Comparisons to the Red Guards were common, and used to buttress the credentials of both parties.</p> <p>The Boxer Rebellion didn’t take place in isolation; neither, as Cohen shows, does historical research. History in Three Keys is an accessible, fascinating history, and a great study in modern mythcraft. </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/23/theres-more-to-china-than-the-olympics/#respond" title="Comment on There’s More To China Than The Olympics">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/23/theres-more-to-china-than-the-olympics/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/23/theres-more-to-china-than-the-olympics/" dc:title="There’s More To China Than The Olympics" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/23/theres-more-to-china-than-the-olympics/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1201"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/23/obama-biden-08/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Obama-Biden 08">Obama-Biden 08</a></h2> <small>Posted August 23rd, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/politicscurrent-events/" title="View all posts in Politics/Current events" rel="category tag">Politics/Current events</a></small> <div class="entry"> <div style="float: left"><img width="200" height="200" src="http://images-cdn01.associatedcontent.com/image/A2575/257531/300_257531.jpg" /></div> <p>By JIM MONTANA<br /> jim.montana(at)hotmail.com</p> <p>In case you are confused, I am writing my politics column on Saturday instead of Thursday just for the fact of the announcement of Barrack Obama’s was to be made later in the week. So here it is: On Saturday afternoon and the big surprise is over the choice is Joe Biden.</p> <p>As any person who read my columns earlier in the presidential race may remember, I have been a huge supporter of Joe Biden and his policy making skills. Now I know that there are tons of Hillary supporters who want to draw and quarter Obama for not picking her, however in the end I think he made a good choice with Biden. Now we have to wait to see who McCain picks as his running mate. My money is on Joe Lieberman.</p> <p>Until next week. </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/23/obama-biden-08/#respond" title="Comment on Obama-Biden 08">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/23/obama-biden-08/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/23/obama-biden-08/" dc:title="Obama-Biden 08" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/23/obama-biden-08/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1200"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/22/whats-a-sequin-to-do/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to What’s A Sequin To Do">What’s A Sequin To Do</a></h2> <small>Posted August 22nd, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/fashion/" title="View all posts in Fashion" rel="category tag">Fashion</a></small> <div class="entry"> <div style="float: left"><img width="200" height="200" src="http://insite.neimanmarcus.com/nminsite/images/2007/09/19/tb_sequined_dress.jpg" /></div> <p>By ROXY RETAIL<br /> cactusiv(at)gmail.com</p> <p>My very good friend is getting married, and I get to wear a dress I’ve had sitting in the closet for just this occasion. It’s black with chiffon, green stitching, and a handful of sequins to add a little character and charm. In all honestly, I wear it and look similar to a goth Cinderella.</p> <p>Well, wouldn’t you know, there was a story online recently about what you should not wear to a wedding.</p> <p>The major offenses were listed: white; shorts; a 10-gallon hat. And then there was another: sequins.</p> <p>Say what?</p> <p>Sequins, according to the article, are too flashy. And no one should be as flashy as the bride. Actually, no, it said sequins made you shine and only the bride is the star.</p> <p>I totally disagree.</p> <p>Yes, you should never wear white because that’s the color reserved for the bride (even though off-white would actually be more fitting with most skin tones and bedroom behavior). But get off my sequins. If it’s a whole gaudy dress made of the shiny stuff, well, that should be left on the rack anyway. But if it’s tasteful — a la your Roxy Retail — then there’s no reason not to rock an accent or two. </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/22/whats-a-sequin-to-do/#comments" title="Comment on What’s A Sequin To Do">1 Comment</a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/22/whats-a-sequin-to-do/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/22/whats-a-sequin-to-do/" dc:title="What’s A Sequin To Do" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/22/whats-a-sequin-to-do/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1158"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/mother-may-i/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Mother May I?">Mother May I?</a></h2> <small>Posted August 20th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/uncategorized/" title="View all posts in Uncategorized" rel="category tag">Uncategorized</a></small> <div class="entry"> <p>By JAMES “TATTOO” CHAPRACKI<br /> geocities.com/tattoospinstriping</p> <p><img src="http://a570.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/28/l_ff189dc93099281c5df2f215a9504169.jpg" /> </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/mother-may-i/#comments" title="Comment on Mother May I?">1 Comment</a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/mother-may-i/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/mother-may-i/" dc:title="Mother May I?" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/mother-may-i/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1199"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/a-case-of-stolen-identity/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to A Case Of Stolen Identity">A Case Of Stolen Identity</a></h2> <small>Posted August 20th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/money-and-banking/" title="View all posts in Money and Banking" rel="category tag">Money and Banking</a></small> <div class="entry"> <div style="float: left"><img width="200" height="200" src="http://cache.viewimages.com/xc/3254148.jpg?v=1&c=ViewImages&k=2&d=12F00EB112845DECD1C83C9D7CFF897EA55A1E4F32AD3138" /></div> <p>By BETH OLIVER<br /> bewitching88(at)msn.com</p> <p>So you read my last article and realized you have no clue what is on your credit report, right? Hopefully you checked <a target="_blank" href="http://www.annualcreditreport.com/">www.annualcreditreport.com</a> for your free report. But let’s say there is stuff on there that doesn’t belong to you. That depends on if it is just an error by the creditor or if you think your identity was stolen. One or two errors are common and can be cleared by contacting the creditor. But, when there are multiple new accounts or new balances you didn’t authorize, it’s a problem.</p> <p>If you are unfortunate enough to be one of almost nine million American victims of identity theft, there are four things you need to do now.</p> <p>One) Place a fraud alert on your credit reports. There are three major bureaus: Equifax, TransUnion and Experian. To place a fraud alert, contact one of them, and they will place an alert on all your reports. A fraud alert is basically a red flag that alerts creditors to confirm the consumer’s identity before granting credit. It stays on the report for 90 days and can be renewed.</p> <p>Two) Contact your creditors, fight charges, close any accounts that you know or think have been tampered with. Call each creditor’s fraud department. Follow up in writing and include copies of supporting documents. It’s important to notify credit card companies and banks in writing in order to prove you followed up. A phone call is not enough! Anything you send must be sent certified mail, return receipt requested, so you will have a record of what each company received and when they received it.</p> <p>If there are unauthorized charges, ask the creditor for dispute forms. If the creditor doesn’t have forms, send a letter. Write the creditor at the address given for billing inquiries NOT the address for payments. Once they remove the charges, ask the creditor to send you a letter stating that they have closed any disputed accounts and have discharged any fraudulent charges.</p> <p>Three) File a complaint with the Federal Trade Commission. They can’t help you out much, but they share their info with police and state troopers across the country. You never know they might be able to help find your thief. Check out their Web site – <a target="_blank" href="http://www.ftc.gov/">www.ftc.gov</a> for more info.</p> <p>Four) File a report with the local police. Get a copy of the police report or at the very least the police report number. Take all your supporting documentation with you.</p> <p>Most identity thieves are never caught or convicted. The most important thing is you get your credit reports, your accounts and your name cleared. It may take a lot of time and effort and even money on your end, but you have no choice. Your credit is too important to not take care of. </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/a-case-of-stolen-identity/#respond" title="Comment on A Case Of Stolen Identity">Join in the conversation </a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/a-case-of-stolen-identity/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/a-case-of-stolen-identity/" dc:title="A Case Of Stolen Identity" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/a-case-of-stolen-identity/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1191"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/is-it-okay-to-upgrade/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Is It Okay To Upgrade?">Is It Okay To Upgrade?</a></h2> <small>Posted August 20th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/sex-and-relationships/" title="View all posts in Sex And Relationships" rel="category tag">Sex And Relationships</a></small> <div class="entry"> <div style="float: left"><img width="200" src="http://img.thesun.co.uk/multimedia/archive/00457/deidre-threesome-68_457398a.jpg" /></div> <p>By ATARI JAY<br /> dearatari(at)gmail.com</p> <p>Have you ever loved someone, but thought you could love someone else more? You’re certainly not alone. In a hypothetical situation: I have been dating this boy, “John,” for long enough to develop a serious connection. Things are great; we might even be in love. But there’s someone else. He might be the boy who has been hiding in the shadows as the best friend or someone completely out of the blue. Let’s call him Joe.</p> <p>John and I have been together for maybe six months, we are most likely in love. Things have, in fact, been great since day one. The excitement may be gone but we have settled into the comfortable relationship state. He makes me happy and we have the mutual friends and shared memories. He’s my best friend and I would do anything for him. I gave him my virginity and he will always have a place in my heart, but things are different with Joe.Around Joe, it’s a whole different feeling and I’m unsure about how this affects me and John. I love John and would never want to hurt him but I think I might be happier with Joe. My feelings are new and I like what this all does to me. Is it okay to breakup with John for Joe?</p> <p>In most cases most people would feel it’s inappropriate to leave someone for someone else. In a best case scenario one should in fact take the time to get over one before moving on to another. Really, is life always the best case scenario? Just because you can move on so easily does not in any way depreciate the relationship, as most people can feel. Everyone is different so it’s no surprise we may recover in our own ways.</p> <p>The most important issue to remember is that this is your life and you should do what’s best for you. This in no way means its okay to intentionally hurt someone, it’s always better to be civil. If I was to be left by a significant other I personally would like the truth in a very direct way while being made aware that this isn’t because I didn’t cap the toothpaste one morning or do something else wrong. But that’s just me and anyone dating me long enough would know this about me.</p> <p>If this is your scenario, then put some thought into it. Your significant other is going to hurt either way, but your best plan of action is to make it hurt least in the delivery.</p> <p>A word of advice: “He or she is better in bed” would never be the answer.</p> <p>And mentioning that, don’t cheat please. I ask this as one person in a relationship to another. It’s okay to have feelings for someone and explore where such feelings can go. That’s what dating is for. But people are not objects; you can’t take them for test drives. Never make someone an excuse to end a relationship. I don’t know a single person that would like to be dumped because you cheated on them, and if you ever liked this person enough to be with them then you should have some cordialness for their feelings.</p> <p>Personally I believe we form relationships to prepare for a future, not just to have fun until our life partner walks into our life. It takes time and effort to make a future with someone. They don’t fall into your lap with a love note, and the first person you meet will most likely not be the person you will kiss last. I’m just saying that breakups are hard enough between two people but have some consideration when adding a third person. </p> </div> <p class="postmetadata"> <br /><strong>Comments:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/is-it-okay-to-upgrade/#comments" title="Comment on Is It Okay To Upgrade?">1 Comment</a></p> <!-- <rdf:RDF xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/"> <rdf:Description rdf:about="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/is-it-okay-to-upgrade/" dc:identifier="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/is-it-okay-to-upgrade/" dc:title="Is It Okay To Upgrade?" trackback:ping="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/20/is-it-okay-to-upgrade/trackback/" /> </rdf:RDF> --> </div> <!google4562e006cb13938f.html --> <div class="post"> <h2 id="post-1198"><a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/2008/08/19/michael-phelps-pure-gold/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Michael Phelps Pure Gold">Michael Phelps Pure Gold</a></h2> <small>Posted August 19th, 2008 by Lisa <br /> <strong>Categories:</strong> <a href="http://www.cactusiv.com/category/sports/" title="View all posts in Sports" rel="category tag">Sports</a></small> <div class="entry"> <div style="float: left"><img width="200" height="200" src="http://msnbcmedia3.msn.com/j/msnbc/Components/Photos/040820/040820_michaelPhelps_vmed_3p.widec.jpg" /></div> <p>By JIM MONTANA<br /> jim.montana(at)hotmail.com</p> <p>On Saturday night, the world had its collective eyes on televisions to witness history. Michael Phelps was going for a record eight gold medals. And while the drama was not nearly as intense as the previous night, the entire world was on the edge of its seats awaiting the results of the final swim for Phelps quest for prefection.</p> <p>Minutes later, the entire pool venue erupted in cheers as Phelps went 8-for-8 and won eight gold medals in eight events. It is nice to know that in these times of war and conflict one man can unite an entire world.</p> <p>Congrats Michael. 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